My Friend Kate!

This is us playing with our hair in the PB, looking not at all dorky.

I miss my friend Kate P. Although I think we're pretty lucky to have internet, so we can still swap stories, thoughts and advice. We can be on separate sides of the country but still hanging out, just not in person. We seem to know a lot of the same people, friends and friends through friends, that type of thing. Makes sense given we've been running in the same circles since middle school.Here is a list of things we may or may not have in common with one another, because so often we agree on things most people don't. She can leave a response if I get some of these right. Keep in mind I'm guessing on some of this, I dont know I might get it wrong and find out Kate absolutely hates music or something (9).

1. We both like guns! All kinds, you name it- KILL KILL KILL. Haha minus the kill part, actually we don't care much about guns, but I've shot a few before and I think she wants to.

2. On Sunday nights we'd try and finish our homework together, or call each other to get the assignments we'd lost over the weekend. Also, she is one of two people who have ever tried to teach me how to rive a manual, and even though I still don't know how, I thank her for trying.

3. We have an affinity for spirits. More than just a tipple here and there, I have to say, looking back at some of our nights hanging out, we can get de-runk.

4. We like boys who run in the same circles, historically speaking, I think this holds true.

5. The limp bizkit song "no sex" was our anthem, and not b/c we were being abstinent.

6. We're blonde. Mostly.

7. We have immature senses of humor, and laugh at things seventh grade boys probably do. For instance, earlier I was turning to the learning channel and I got there and here's what I told Kate:
Sandyd120: I was flipping thru the channels and im like "that's an outline of a penis erecting!!" I was expecting a home decorating show' apparently this comment, "cracked her shit up"

8. We were both in sororities, different ones for different lengths of time.

9. I know she likes music, well you know what, I do too. We saw the Backstreet boys, blink182, Fenix tx, dashboard. Maybe mustard plug or something.

10. We both have really big breasts. Depending on your definition of "really" and "big".

11. In HS we would go to cap cafe and talk about whatever was happening in each others lives and those lives of other people we knew.

12. We have very similar views about marriage and relationships, and I'm not going to get into what those views are, but I think I can say we have a pretty mature understanding and informed attitude about them. I think she would agree that we are not exactly "virginal" but certainly not slutty by any reasonable standards.

13. A small piece of Kate and Sandra history: (first refer to number 4. And refresh your memory) I have never made out with Kate, however, I have made out in the same car she was making out in at the same time, got it on on the same beach she was getting it on at, at the same time, um, same basement same time. I think that's it, and it wasn't kinky you perverts, we would double date back in the day, we just were in semi-close proximity (feet people, several, many feet) to each other. Looking back, we've come to the conclusion, maybe that was kinda lame. Also, I'm not sure why I shared this, I think because I only just remembered it this evening.

14. We have a wealth of knowledge about the facts of life, and I think we could write a book, and a lot of confused individuals might figure some real shit out. Over the years, especially during college, I can't remember how many times we had apiphanies (I really don't know how to spell this word) about all sorts of things while talking, many of which could be helpful to alot of people. And they have been, I've tested a few of our theories out on other friends in similar predicaments, and yes, they are helpful.

15. This is a good place to stop b/c its our average number, kind of. I didn't do the math with anything but my head so its probably off a bit..

Well, this was awfully incoherent post, but I'm really hungry and sitting in a really uncomfortable position on the floor so deal with it. I miss Kate a lot, but she doesn't seem that far away, since she's still been there for me and let me ramble on about stuff no one else will listen to, which means a lot. I'm very excited for her to get her fine ass back to EL and party it up!